We don't have "a song" and have such different tastes in music - me more popular or well known, him heavy metal/very alternative so we're really struggling with our first dance song. He has suggested something instrumental, but I want the song to be a bit upbeat and have some sort of romance underlying it. We plan to have a dance choreographed to it so that the focus hopefully will be more on our dance rather than the actual song. Does anyone have any suggestions of songs that we could consider - would love your help! Music is the only thing that's stressing me about the planning!